People say money isn't everything, well that could spill from the lips of someone who already acquire it, for eventually anything you already have will always never be everything you will ever need.
Argue it in ways you can, but when you use your life presently as a case study and you compare it with the life you've always dreamed of, you'd realize that what you are and what you wish to become in years to come is only delayed or fastened by one factor; Support!
The fear of losing someone is the reason we keep some secrets, but often times the act of keeping the secret is what makes us lose them and not the act of sharing it.