Fearless Lines

 In any relationship you find yourself, always endeavor to make your partner's Mentality a priority on your wish list. For no matter the mutual tides you both share, if your mentality is shallow like the grave of the horn of a Unicorn, it will always make all plans and choices taking go the wrong turn.

No matter your closeness with people, always try to set boundaries, create that space for yourself which will later be a safe haven you can stay when things go wrong, for eventually time and pressure will always reveal our true identity.

 By nature of life, we often encounter red flags in people through our Friendships and Relationships. Quitting may not often be a good idea for we can always forgive a child who is afraid of the dark which is a reflection of our imperfections. But the true tragedy is to ignore the essence of knowing these errors and yet believes that change will emerge without their personal realization and conviction to change.  

 One of the easiest way to keep loosing is to journey the path of life with the mindset that your manner of kindness to others is a universal approach to everyone. Your story will end up like an inexperienced Man investing his life savings in a business he knows nothing about. His end result will always be a lean purse, total loss. 

 That you love someone dearly doesn't mean you will be loved back exactly the same way. You can be lucky to be loved in the same proportion or be loved lesser to what you are even expecting. But which ever way, ensure to know that love degrees can never be the same, but when the degree of the other does not fit into any love definition, it's best to withdraw, in order to live long enough to love again.

 They say, perhaps God wants us to meet a few wrong people so we could appreciate the right ones when they show up. How come relationship often has a way to damage one's energy before you meet the right person, and when you finally meet the right person, giving your best will be so unnecessary and impossible. 

 For lovers of scrabble, you'd realize that a word that gives Bingo for someone may not be that rewarding if placed on the wrong track by another. In the same vein, understand that the consequences of your action turn out bad does not make the action itself bad in its own state, for if the same action is carried out by another individual, it could be another Man's Jackpot.

 Just like the death of someone we do not know pulls off no hair on our skin, so also we should know that death has no meaning over the living. It is the demise of our loved ones and the place they hold in our heart that gives death her essence. 

 You will keep being treaded upon the more you love people more than they love you. Don't rush, just try to watch the degree of what they are ready to part with towards you and give the same degree back to them. Don't level up to them, allow them to walk in their pace but be observant while you run your race as well, If there's a need to adjust, you both will fill the gaps. Until then, you will keep striving to make the person happy and the other will keep building excuses to make you sad.

 The deadline of human existence is more toxic than death itself. If and If only we knew when we would die, we would realize that death is not what will eventually end the race be not the thoughts of the deadline.