Sex as a one night stand deceives us with a kind of false intimacy, a pleasurable distortion of the accumulative emotional vulnerability that occurs with the same partner in the marriage bed.
Men cheat not because sexual activity is absent on the register,, but because they lack the understanding of what their soul needs and what their body wants.
Never should you see your gift, talent or that which you are good at as a weapon to be used on others to get all you want. As it can make others bleed, so it can make the bearer cry even with being cut.
Know your worth and peg your value to yourself. If you make yourself so cheap for people to occupy your space, they will come into your life and take your price tag away.
Two things in life will always make your life's stage relevant : the First is Yourself and the Last is your Audience. You will always remain a Failure to your Audience the day you begin to Lose Faith in yourself, and you will always remain a Champion to Yourself as long you still find Favor in the face of your Audience.
The act of setting boundaries on what we can do and that we can't do is a proof of not yet being faced with the proportional challenges that merit the undo to become done. Life has grown beyond what we can decide on our own, its a matter of that which will make us compromise over our decision should not see the light of the day.